I don’t know what to tell you.”. I know it to be true, because I’ve practiced it for many years. We are all completely unique. whatever . Considering that my last entry was about procrastination, and seeing how long it’s been since I’ve gotten around to writing another entry, I obviously have a lot of work to do on overcoming my tendency to procrastinate. A very long time ago I became aware of the concept of a gratitude journal. It’s true what they say, that being a parent is absolutely the most fulfilling thing you can do in this life, and absolutely the most difficult. That feels a little scary. I’ll start by listing some of the things I think about every day that help me remember how blessed I am. She hadn’t been to church for a long time and missed it, so she decided to give it another chance, longing for the love and belonging she had felt in the past by attending church meetings and interacting with those who shared her faith. So, I have some specific challenges. It’s a worthy goal. What if they want and need the love and support of that community? I ask every person who reads this to consider that question long and hard before I follow with another hard question: Are we inadvertently hurting others by making assumptions and jumping to conclusions, as opposed to simply striving to offer love and understanding? Audible provides the highest quality audio and narration. If a Mormon isn’t living up to certain expected standards, they cannot serve in a church calling or attend the temple. Anita Stansfield is an American author and is considered to be the queen of LDS romantic fiction. Biography. * * * THE HEIRESS OF ALL THINGS BEAUTIFUL by Anita Stansfield, Published by Covenant Communications, Inc., 198 pages, soft cover $15.99. I liked the Anita Stansfield Facebook page. Some of my children had difficulty getting along with each other, particularly during different stages. This is my favorite time of year, and in spite of my daily struggles, I take some moments every day to soak in the cooling temperatures and the color of the leaves changing. This path has given him great fulfillment and joy in the long run, and it has strengthened his relationship with God. Sometimes I wonder if life would be easier if I were one of those people who seems content to remain in some form of denial, but in reality I know it would only appear to be easier. It’s my belief that the oil is pure love, Christlike love. He never spoke to sinners with anything but love and kindness and compassion. etc. I have read many books by Anita Stansfield and sometimes I have a hard time reading books in the particular time period, but I enjoyed her book and read it all in one night. Okay, just getting silly now. As their lives become entwined, it will take Christmas spirit to guide a broken family to love and healing. Several months ago I made a decision that I needed to write more consistently on this blog. What a journey! Write as many things as you want, or just one. And then I considered that with school starting there was always a trade off. He earned that right! Task completed. I think what works best is an individual preference. In spite of being a writer of imaginary tales, and a definite romantic, I actually enjoy learning about science. September 2020 August 2020 July … It presents an amazing metaphorical tale of science vs. religion, and the conclusion—metaphorically speaking—is quite remarkable. And being LGBTQ does NOT mean a lack of belief in God, or even a lack of testimony in the Savior. Mrs. Stansfield explained to us that Emma never doubted the prophet. A woman shared her story with me who was struggling with her own sexual identity, and trying to come to terms with it in regard to the Church she had been raised in. I’ve heard it come up from many different sources, with different suggestions of how to do it. My daughter who is twenty-seven and also a patient of Dr. J (because she also has Celiac Disease like her mother) also has Lyme, and he believes she may have gotten it from me in the womb. I also understood why it couldn’t have been addressed before now. There, I’ve written a blog post. However, I’ve read studies of how the act of writing something down shifts the way our brain perceives it, so I’m offering a challenge for you to get yourself a notebook or journal dedicated to a gratitude list that you can add to regularly—and therefore refer to it when you need a boost—or perhaps at least designate a file on your electronic device where you can quickly jot down the things that are good in your life when they come to mind. Oh, gosh! Or be the victim of one? The thought of being done with getting my children through school—at least the schooling that takes place prior to their becoming adults and mostly (supposedly) forging ahead from that point on their own. For example: I know of a person who has had a lifelong struggle with same-sex attraction and has made some choices that are regretted. But the problem isn’t only manifested through social media; I see it leaking into conversations and discussions among social groups, church groups, etc. And it doesn’t mean that his strengths and weakness are the same as any other person, anywhere, ever. Click on each title to read some brief thoughts on Anita’s insights and background on the books. Anita Stansfield -- the complete book list in order (74 books) (7 series). (Not!) Follow the adult reader blog via email. One. Therefore I looked forward to the end of summer vacation and returning to a more structured schedule and having them out of the house for some ours every day. In the long run, the things we are in denial over are likely the very things that cause us the most difficulty—but since denial is real, you can’t develop an awareness unless you really start paying attention to what makes you uncomfortable and why. Being a deeply analytical person, my brain is often busy trying to figure out why certain things have happened in my life the way they have happened, and I’ve realized that sometimes I have the tendency to look for a zebra when it’s only a horse; this is something I’ve heard of many times in medical drama (I like to watch that too) or also in science. I have always felt an amazing peaceful calm sensation during our conversations about my health, and I have never once left his office feeling anything but hope—which is a stark contrast to so many doctors I went to in the past who were arrogant and dismissive and unwilling to acknowledge any possibility but one. I’ve learned that there is a huge spectrum of beliefs about Lyme, what causes it and how it can be treated. But I consider myself an observer of human nature and the human condition, and I’ve been observing something that I’m finding increasingly alarming. In essence saying to me, “Well, we tried this and it didn’t work. Or you can use an online handle like: stormtrooper47. Her work has shattered the stereotypes of romance novels with her trademark ability to combine great storytelling with intense psychological depth as she focuses on the emotional struggles of the human experience. I’ll just leave it at that. I realistically expect to actually have a chance to spend time with my daughter a little bit on Sundays and during Christmas break. Browse author series lists, sequels, pseudonyms, synopses, book covers, ratings and awards. I have read many books by Anita Stansfield and sometimes I have a hard time reading books in the particular time period, but I enjoyed her book and read it all in one night. Anyway . by Anita Stansfield includes books The Captain of Her Heart, Captive Hearts, The Captain's Angel (The Buchanan Saga, V. 3), and several more. Someday I hope to run a B&B....my dream. More than ever, what the world needs now is love. Would they quickly be convinced that they’d been right all along? AND I’ve been struggling with what I call diagnosis grief. I defer to the adage that we should first seek to understand before we seek to be understood. I can hope, and I’m also working very hard to learn to truly trust in the Lord, and lean not until MY understanding. Therefore . . But not to worry, with college and a mission in my daughter’s sights, it will still be a good, long while before I can really step out of the active mother role and just sit back in my rocking chair and take it easy. I’ve watched this particular video clip several times, and I’ve pondered its messages a great deal in how they apply to me and how I can use what’s being taught here to make life better for me and for those I love. The other powerful facet of gratitude is simply to help us keep perspective. I’ve certainly paid my dues as a mother, and I look forward to a time when I will be free of the complications of being responsible for a minor child. As we struggle to survive all the world throws at us, we often get so battle-weary that I think we can start to lose sight of what’s really important. I believe part of why assessing how blessed we are is beneficial stems back to the fact that we are humbled enough to acknowledge that all we have comes from God. I got a friend to do the same, etc. But that does not mean that his reasons for this challenge in his life are the same as anyone else’s. And I’ve received some wonderful comments and emails from some of you that have lifted my spirits. I’m planning to spend the next year in my pajamas, writing books, healing, and doing little else, and I’m looking forward to stepping into a new season of life. etc., not to mention the more personal matters that come up of their hurt feelings or social dramas that came into play. She believed it with every part of her being. I’m not one of those mothers that is heart broken over the prospect of an empty nest. I’m talking about having the confidence to stand in your own value system, with your own convictions, and still be able to love others without condition and with complete respect. Clean, christian, historical fiction book with a good steady plot and interesting characters. If we look beneath our angry feelings and reactions with humility and self-honesty, we will usually be able to find the REAL emotion beneath it, and then we can address it appropriately and work on solving problems effectively. Others feel and believe they must choose another path. Here in Utah Valley, I am enjoying the autumn weather. . (The books were not necessarily written in the same order they were published.) Gables of Legacy, Volume II, A Guiding Star, Gables of Legacy, Volume III, The Silver Linings, Gables of Legacy, Volume IV, An Eternal Bond, The Buchanan Saga, Volume I, The Captain of Her Heart, The Buchanan Saga, Volume II, Captive Hearts, The Buchanan Saga, Volume III, The Captain’s Angel, The Buchanan Saga, Volume IV, Hearts Crossed, Barrington Family Saga, Volume I, In Search of Heaven, Barrington Family Saga, Volume II, A Quiet Promise, Barrington Family Saga, Volume III, At Heaven’s Door, Barrington Family Saga, Volume IV, Promise of Zion, The Jayson Wolfe Story, Part 1, The Sound of Rain, The Jayson Wolfe Story, Part 2, A Distant Thunder, The Jayson Wolfe Story, Part 3, The Winds of Hope, The Jayson Wolfe Story, Part 4, Shelter From the Storm, The Dickens Inn Series Volume I, The Best of Times, The Dickens Inn Series Volume II, A Far, Far Better Place, The Dickens Inn Series Volume III, A Loving Heart, The Dickens Inn Series Volume IV, Tranquil Light, The Dickens Inn Series Volume V, Every Graceful Fancy, Shadows of Brierley Volume I, The Wanderer, Shadows of Brierley Volume II, A Far Horizon, Shadows of Brierley Volume III, A Distant Shore, Shadows of Brierley Volume IV, In the Valley of the Mountains, The Buchanan Saga, Volume V, The Captain’s Rose. by Sarah M. Eden , Anita Stansfield, et al. Her work has shattered the stereotypes of romance novels with her trademark ability to combine great storytelling with intense psychological depth as she focuses on the emotional struggles of the human experience. Unconditionally! Now, I know families come in all sizes; some have certainly had more children to care for than I did, and some have had less. He loves us unconditionally! I know of more than one of these people who would like to be able to continue to attend church, even though they’ve chosen a lifestyle contrary to the Church’s doctrine and policy. As she sat in the classes, she was astonished to hear comments that seemed to justify that it was okay to ostracize people who didn’t share their beliefs or lifestyle. Life is full of all kinds of disease and poison; some of it being literal, and much of it being metaphorical. With strong religious convictions, this person eventually chose a path of adhering to the requirements of that religion in order to be an active member with full privileges. Be sure to enter to win your own copy of this book and stop by the other reviews on the tour. I know they need to have their own journey and work their way through as adults. Preschool, kindergarten, and twelve grades in order to achieve high school graduation. Covenant Communications, a division of Deseret Book Corporation, was founded more than fifty years ago. I believe that without even realizing it, we are those among the crowd surrounding the woman taken in adultery, those that Jesus called out by saying that he who was without sin should cast the first stone. See what Anita Stansfield (akstansfield) has discovered on Pinterest, the world's biggest collection of ideas. | Sold by: Amazon.com Services LLC | Sep 1, 2019 etc. My children are spread out in years, so the oldest had barely finished his junior year in high school when the youngest was born. I want to express my sincere appreciation for the love, support, and prayers of you who read my books and my blog and the way you genuinely care about my well being. In this utterly captivating novel, bestselling author Anita Stansfield achieves a satisfying balance of romance, humor, and deep glimpses into the human heart and soul. Even though I “worked” at home, I still had more than a full-time job on top of mothering and being in charge of a household. If we don’t act like Christians, how can we teach the world that we are? . The list is endless, and so is the possibility of crumbling under the pressure. FINDING STRENGTH DURING TIMES OF ADVERSITY, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NxB6c6d39A. ONE! In simple terms, Occam’s Razor is a scientific term that means: all things being equal, the simplest explanation tends to be the right one. But I’m straying from my point. Over the past few years, I have been told multiple times in priesthood blessings that I would be healed but it would take time and it would take medical intervention. We get angry with people when they have hurt or betrayed or disappointed us. I just keep making to-do lists so my foggy brain can keep track of what’s important, and I force myself to do what needs to be done. Suddenly, there in my mind was the theory of Occam’s Razor. I just forget sometimes in the midst of the daily struggles. Many years ago, when my children were younger, there was a time when I had two children in elementary school, one in junior high, and one in a high school. I think I saw it in Layton! Anita’s Book Notes The following list is in the order of publication. I hope you’re all having a good week. May we remember that the only battle that really matters is the battle between love and hate, and every hour of every day we choose which side we’re on. Anita Stansfield has more than fifty published books and is the recipient of many awards, including two lifetime achievement awards. Okay, so maybe I’m finally going to see that come to pass. There is a huge campaign going on to educate physicians on the diagnosis and treatment of Lyme, which implies that most doctors don’t know how to find it or treat it. HOWEVER, I have also been aware of this person (I believe unintentionally) saying things that are very hurtful in a passive-aggressive way regarding others who are a part of the LGBTQ community. The only people that Jesus outwardly rebuked were the hypocrites and the self-righteous. And then an infant was added to the mix. Looking for books by Anita Stansfield? That’s the way it’s supposed to be. It just seems so difficult to get myself to do simple tasks that I know will make me feel better if I do them. I know I’m on the right course for me. Dr. J is a very wise man. Why? I’m not talking about loving someone blindly in a way that enables bad behavior that hurts other people. The youngest is now at exactly that same stage, and the transitions of life amaze me and at times can feel a little alarming. This review is part of a blog tour for Anita Stansfield’s new book The House of Stone and Ivy. I learned years ago (and have put this concept into some of my stories) that anger is a secondary emotion; there is always something beneath it. Anyone who grows up in the Church knows that. . Given that preamble of psycho-babble, I’ll get to the point that’s on my mind. This is the biography page for Anita Stansfield. For WEEKS I have thought every day that I need to write something for the blog and get my daughter to post it (due to my enormous lack of computer knowledge) and every day I have felt a little more uncomfortable over the fact that another day has passed without that goal being accomplished. Passage on the Titanic by Anita Stansfield is the story of a young woman, Ella Brown, who is left destitute when her father commits suicide and her mother loses her mind. And here’s some food for thought: If a Muslim family moved into your predominantly Mormon neighborhood, how would they be treated? While we stand in our own fear and discomfort regarding the current issues of the world, whether it be gay marriage, abortion, terrorism, gun control, or . But I want to back up a little . I could defend myself with the fact that I’ve been on deadline writing a novel—which is now completed—but it really doesn’t take that much time for me to write something for the blog. That’s my hope for today: to be more motivated and productive this week, and to form some better habits about doing so as a way of life. I’m looking around at people who are so deeply hurt by the carelessness of this kind of behavior, from well-intentioned, good people, and I see a storm brewing that has the power to undermine a “Christian” society from its very core. I’ve found through the last few projects that I feel like my own worst enemy: I have to write something that will be good enough to compete with the works of Anita Stansfield, and some of those books were pretty darn good; some better than others, of course. Anita Stansfield has been a queen of romantic fiction for more than a decade. Losing weight is not possible with so many strange food restrictions and ongoing illness. It has taken all I have just to deal with the bare necessities of my job (writing novels) and my home and family—even though I physically do very little, I’m still the one who has to keep track of the household and the well-being of my family members, emotionally and physically. But I would like to cross more things off that list before they become urgent, as opposed to having it feel like such a burden. In fact, I’ve seen a great reliance on, and gratitude for, the Atonement of Jesus Christ from people who have such struggles. In my own journey of striving to become better, I’ve had some harsh moments of being shocked out of denial, but eventually I’m always glad to be more self-aware and to keep learning. The best of times....where is the house located on the cover?? And they are challenging! And you know what? She was born and raised in Provo, Utah. Oh my gosh, yes!! But in a way, I supposed that’s the summary of life’s challenges—to keep forging ahead and striving to become better. Perhaps I’m being presumptuous to say that it’s so common among the majority of us humans; maybe I’m in a minority. I received a copy of this book complimentary for blog and social media review. I have previously been diagnosed with two separate conditions, and they have been treated and managed, and yet I still suffer to the point that I am barely functioning. I’ve been studying the disease through reputable websites, one in particular the doctor recommended. Each time I embark upon a new project I wonder if I really have what it takes to come up with another good story, relatable characters, and some twists and turns. It is a story that resonates with emotional truths that will linger long after the last page is turned. That’s reassuring. Or: Mary Margaret from Storybrooke. Exercise amounts to having to go up and down the stairs in my house many times a day, but that’s all my muscles can handle. Yes, He told them to go and sin no more, but He is GOD! Getting multiple children ready for school with clothes, supplies, adjusting bedtimes, etc.—and then there’s the actual registration that’s necessary for children in the upper grades—was indeed overwhelming. Thanks you sooooo much for posting these! Your expressions of kindness and concern have meant so much to me. . As a breast cancer survivor, I strongly encourage all of my female readers and. Clean, christian, historical fiction book with a good steady plot and interesting characters. The Heiress of All Things Beautiful by Anita Stansfield About the Book: Florence Prescott and her family live in fear of her father’s vicious outbursts. Ask yourself if you’re one of those people who gives Christians a bad reputation. And even IF a person HAS experienced these things, how can that person still say that they understand how ANOTHER person experiences it? When we recognize and feel that love for us, it helps us overcome those feelings of inadequacy and we no longer have the need to compare ourselves to others. As it says in one of the songs from the movie White Christmas (one of my all-time favorites during the season) “If you’re worried and you can’t sleep, just count your blessings instead of sheep.” Counting blessings doesn’t necessarily help me sleep, given my messed up body chemistry, but it always helps me get some perspective. God’s love is the safety net that catches us when we fall, when other things in life let us down, and when we face adversity in our lives. It’s a natural human response that when we’ve been hurt, or when something frightens us, we become defensive. 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